By Nicole Joseph
Chicago Defender
Reprinted – by Texas Metro News
Ah, the holidays—when the air is filled with gratitude, warmth, festive treats and cozy traditions. For many, this season brings beloved days off, hot chocolate, peppermint lattes and all the joys of gathering with loved ones.
But for others, the holiday season is a time of mixed emotions.
It may not feel the same as it did years ago when everyone was together, before life’s changes—like distance, loss and new directions—altered the landscape of tradition.
These disruptions are why many, for whatever reason, cannot enjoy Thanksgiving with their families, so they opt for a “Friendsgiving,” where they celebrate the hallowed tradition with friends, associates and companions.
If this is your situation, listed below are fun, heartfelt Friendsgiving ideas to create new memories, celebrate friendship and make this holiday every bit as meaningful as a traditional gathering with family.
Fun Ideas to Celebrate and Create New Traditions
Cooking Class
Dream of crafting the perfect holiday meal but don’t know where to start?
Host or attend a Thanksgiving cooking class with friends to learn new techniques, create a delicious meal and enjoy the fruits of your labor together. Whether you choose a traditional feast, a seafood boil or comforting soul food, this experience offers shared skills, laughter and a satisfying meal that’ll have everyone’s stomachs rejoicing.
Restaurant Gathering
While preparing a Thanksgiving meal can be rewarding, not everyone wants the stress of cooking. Meeting at a restaurant is the perfect alternative for those who prefer a more relaxed, less intense holiday. Some establishments offer special holiday menus, while others keep it classic. It’s an easy way to share a meal, make memories and enjoy time together without cleaning up.
Paint and Sip
For a creative twist, gather your friends for a paint-and-sip session. You can find a Turkey Day paint-and-sip event in the city or host one yourself. Paint seasonal themes like fall leaves or turkeys while sipping your favorite drinks and snacking on Thanksgiving treats. It’s a fun, casual event that fosters creativity and laughter and provides a night full of unforgettable moments.
Gratitude Board
Thanksgiving is all about gratitude; a gratitude board adds a meaningful touch to your celebration. Have each friend bring a favorite dish and write a note about what they’re thankful for to add to the board. Sharing these stories fosters connection, vulnerability and a deeper appreciation for one another.
Movie Night
For some, a movie marathon is what they need to kick off their holiday. Host a cozy movie night at home or head to the theater to catch films that evoke nostalgia or are all about action and entertainment. Whether you’re binging Christmas classics or revisiting old favorites, it’s a simple, relaxed way to celebrate together.
Brunch
Why not brunch for Friendsgiving? Brunch combines the best of breakfast and lunch with the option of bottomless drinks at many locations. It’s always a crowd-pleaser. Whether dining out or hosting at home, brunch is a chance to enjoy great food, have lively conversations and indulge in the joys of company.
Food Tour
Take a Friendsgiving food tour! Visit different restaurants or bakeries, sampling seasonal specials or signature dishes. It’s an adventurous way to celebrate and taste a variety of delicacies at multiple spots.
Karaoke Night
Bring out your inner diva with a karaoke night! Sing along to classics like “I Wanna Dance with Somebody” or “Respect.” Karaoke night is a great way to let loose and make memories, regardless of singing ability.
Mixology Party
Create a festive drink station where everyone can make their own holiday concoctions—hot chocolates, mocktails, cocktails, smoothies or even festive milkshakes. This adds a creative and interactive element to your Friendsgiving, and everyone leaves with a new favorite drink recipe!
Give Back Together
Start your Thanksgiving with a purpose by volunteering as a group. Whether at a local church, shelter or community organization, giving back is a powerful way to foster gratitude. Serving others creates lasting memories and offers a chance to strengthen bonds while making a meaningful impact in the lives of others.
Friendsgiving allows you to redefine traditions, foster connections and find comfort in new routines.
Whether you’re gathering with lifelong friends, classmates or neighbors, Friendsgiving invites all who need warmth, camaraderie, and something to be grateful for. So, gather together, make new memories and celebrate the joy of friendship this holiday season.
